Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Vaulting Dreams…

Malati, the eight year old daughter of our maid, stood leaning against my study table as her mother cleaned the room. She seemed quite awed watching me bury my head inside Philip Kotler’s Marketing Management.
Tai, tu itka abhyaas karun kay doctor honar aahes?” (Will you become a doctor after studying so much?) she asked. I dont blame her, it is a quintessentially Indian concept, that when students study hard, it only to become either a doctor or an engineer. I was too absorbed in the “7 Ps marketing mix” (read confusion mix)to answer her and simply shook my head.
Mag tu kay honar?” (What will you become, then?)she asked again. Wrong question. Management is perhaps the only faculty where after chasing 38 subjects, making 76 presentations and submitting 100s of projects, you still don’t know what the future will hold for you. You see, ‘ The Jack of all, is Master of Business Administration’

Me kadachit Corporate Executive hoin” ( I will probably become a corporate executive) I answered Malati, very well aware of the fact that she would not have a clue of what it means. Nor do I, to be honest.
Mala saang tula kay vhayche aahe mothi jhalyawar ?” (Tell me what do u want to become when u grow up?) I posed immediately to stop her from hurling the next question at me.
Me tar doctorach honar” ( I will become a doctor) came Malati’s prompt reply.
I was astonished by the conviction in her words, the poise in her vaulting dreams…
Little did she know about the cash pumping into coaching classes and admission procedures that it takes to enter a decent medical school or about the petty loans her mother takes for her uninterrupted schooling.

Malati is not the only one. There are myriad such children in our country, talented and hardworking, who aspire of becoming Doctors, Engineers and Executives in multinationals ( anything less than that is not considered to be of any significance in the realm of degrees…) There are still many who pierce into the battle field to fight for those limited seats in the esteemed colleges. Most of them remain but Pawns with King-sized dreams...

Success stories of young minds from humble backgrounds making it big look good only in books but the reality is far more austere.
Today more than talent and handwork, it is money that you need buy the weighty degrees from the market of education.


it is easy for people like you and me, sitting in our air conditioned rooms, to rant about propagating higher education in 21st century India. Little do we understand the pain of those who study from the old, reused dog-eared books sitting under the lamp posts…

"Kalaji nako karu Aai, me doctor jhaale ki tula nakki bare karin” (don’t worry mom, I’ll treat you once I become a doctor) i heard Malati telling her mother, a patient of arthritis, who graons everytime she bends down.
I wonder if her dreams will ever come true… I pray they should…


My toast is to the silent hoard,
Spread over the world’s expanse
To the unknown many who could have soared –
But never had a chance!


18 comments:

Anonymous said...

WELL DONE KETKI!!!!!!! gr8888

ANKITA said...

WEEL DONE KETKI!!!!!!!!!!


ANKITA.....

ketki said...

@ ankita,
thanx a lot dear...

Satish said...

good piece of work depicting social awareness under the guise of ‘Story Telling’ ( & I really mean it)
made even an introvert person to be more concerned about others plight
emphatically comments on total failure of “Education for all” and “Social justice” for the reasons you had rightly pointed out.( though political fraternity & pseudo social reformers holds contrary views)
central character, Malati, who hails from a BPL family, knowingly or unknowingly the bleak future ahead, dared to dream for big. The grim, gloomy & unsupportive environment where she finds herself most of the time can’t deter her from thinking to become a Doctor. I think, this is the silver lining. Never stop dreaming but keep them vaulting
Can’t say about Malati, (though I sincerely pray her dreams come true) , but with each write up you post on blog, I must admit, you are “vaulting” it’s literary level to a new height
Keep the good work going

Ayyappan said...

What can we do? Soon, Malati would grow old enough to realize that her dreams were too fanciful..!!!
Besides, Malati happens to be a girl.. had she been a boy, her mother would have sold everything for her studies. For Malati, everything would be sold too, but for her wedding..!

Nics said...

Very well written! I don't know about a doctor but I hope that she gets a job which gives her financial as well as personal satisfaction; a job better than a domestic help atleast!
It's sad indeed.

Ayyappan said...

For the uninitiated, not-so-bright ones.. my above post was written in a sarcastic manner..!!

Ayyappan said...

On a more serious note, Malati is only 8..!! Maybe you could help her in realizing her dream..!

Ayyappan said...

@Nicol
That was a brave attempt at appearing sweet..!!

Mary Jasmine said...

Good piece of work Ketki!!! Get going.....

ketki said...

@ Satish,
thakyou so much for the appreciation and encouragement

ketki said...

@ ayyo,
i am sure that if malati's mother is doing so muchh to complete for her education, it is definitely not just to raise her value in the marriage market!

@ nics,
thanx a lot! i m sure she'll find a btr and respectable job..

Ayyappan said...

@ketki
The only thing that an Indian woman is destined to do is to get married to someone and give birth to his progeny..!!
Trust me, Her mother, deep down, is only arranging for a nice suitor..!! x_X

ketki said...

@ ayyo,
hmmm... right i too think 'we' should help malati ;) :D

@ nics,
hey thanx for being really sweet.
To minds fraught with envy, genuine applause always appears too be mindless flattery... so dont mind them...

ketki said...

@ jasmine,
thanx a lot dear...

ketki said...

@ayyo,
Fortunately, Malati has a mother who thinks otherwise...

Albeit a few Indian men still continue to be insular narrow-minded chauvinists, thankfully, atleast the women have changed.

Nics said...

@ Ketki: To minds fraught with envy, genuine applause always appears too be mindless flattery... so dont mind them...

So..So True!

@ Ayyo: I am undoubtedly sweet but not as sweet as you- giving me the book with Ketki's story in it, to read! :D :D

Known Stranger said...

Days will change. My dad was one of those kid who used to be like malati kinds and he managed well to be a student of Sir CV raman. Infact got posting as scientist in BARC though he didnt opt in 1969. So it is not not very difficult as you wrote but yes practical difficulties remain in India. Days will come for a change more than you see through.